Quentin Miller's speech at Normy Diamond's z"l Minyan
Normy Diamond Minyan – Sunday, 6 July 2025
Dear Friends It is with a heavy heart that we gather this evening to remember and honour the life of Normy Diamond—a treasured member of our congregation, a dedicated leader, and a beloved friend to so many of us. Normy’s passing last week has left a deep void in the heart of the Melbourne Hebrew Congregation.
His family’s bond with this synagogue spans generations: His grandparents were longstanding members. His parents - Leon and Jill were married at the shule in 1957. Next week will be their 68th wedding anniversary. Normy and his brothers Ricky and Michael all had their Barmitzvahs at the shule, as did his cousins Paul Rubenstein and Ben Pask
Normy revelled in the tradition and legacy with pride, integrity, and an unwavering sense of duty to our community. Together we were so looking forward to celebrating the 100 year anniversary of the construction of this place in 1930 - in classic Normy verbage he talked about getting down and dirty in preparation for 2030.
As a long-standing member of our Board, Normy contributed with great dedication. Perhaps his most visible—and lasting—contribution was in his role overseeing security. For many years, he was the one ensuring that our synagogue remained not only a place of prayer, but a place of safety. He never took any chances - it was always “let’s get one more armed guard”, “let me talk to VicPol”, “I’ll be out the front checking”.
Through his tireless efforts, he secured vital government grants that allowed us to install CCTV cameras, fortified doors, bulletproof windows, and soon to be installed bollards—not simply as protective structures, but as symbols of care, vigilance, and love for our community and this building. And he didn’t do this work alone—he built bridges.
Through his role, Normy formed close relationships with numerous organisations including CSG, Victoria Police, Melbourne City Council and VAJEX. Each has sent heartfelt messages of condolence to the shule. Those partnerships reflected Normy’s deep respect for collaboration and his belief in looking out for one another. Of course, Normy wasn’t just known for his dedication—he was also known for his personality. He was, let’s be honest, a bit of a rebel and not really one for Board governance. More than once, someone would come up to me, half-laughing, half curious, and ask: “Wait… is Normy Diamond really on the synagogue Board?” “Don’t you mean his brother Ricky?" And it was a fair question! But Normy loved his time on the Board and often commented to me how it had given him a great sense of purpose and meaning.
Normy had a zest for life, a great sense of humour, and a presence that could fill a room. He loved a good chat, a good celebration, and the joy of being surrounded by friends and this community. But perhaps the image that will remain with me most vividly is Normy during the Chaggim, High Holidays and major events, standing on the front steps of the shule with his long trench coat and black gloves, watchful, calm, and deeply present. He wasn’t looking for attention—he was looking after us. That steady presence, that quiet watchfulness—it became part of what Shul felt like.
Every time I walk up the stairs to the synagogue, I will think of him. And I know many of you will too. On behalf of the Board, Governors, Rabbi Shlomo and his family - I offer our love and deepest condolences. Normy’s impact on our community will be enduring. His memory lives on in the safety he ensured, the joy he shared, and the strength of the relationships he nurtured. Yehi zichro baruch – may his memory be a blessing. May we continue to honour that memory through our actions, our connections, and our commitment to this place he so deeply loved.
Illness, Grief and Bereavement
Illness and loss can be a difficult and challenging part of our lives, and it's important to remember that we don't have to go through these experiences alone. At Melbourne Hebrew Congregation, we understand the pain and sorrow that comes with illness and loss, and we're here to offer our support and assistance in any way we can.
If a loved one is going through a difficult time with their health, please don't hesitate to reach out to us. Our pastoral care and spiritual support team is here to provide comfort and guidance during these trying times.
In the unfortunate event of a loved one passing away, our community is here to support you through every step of the grieving process. We can assist in funeral arrangements, provide a compassionate Rabbi to preside over the funeral, organise a minyan and prayers during the shiva, and offer emotional support to those experiencing the loss.
As time goes by and you continue to navigate life after your loss, know that you are not alone. Melbourne Hebrew Congregation is here to provide ongoing support and invite you to receive an Aliyah in honour of your loved one's memory. We understand that healing is a gradual process, and we are here to offer our support and care for as long as you need it.
For more information, kindly reach out to our office at 03 9866 2255 or via email at admin@mhc.org.au